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Saturday, May 20, 2006

Rain, Rain Go Away


We have been counting down about ten days of rain here in New England. The high temperature has been in the fifties and the lows in the low forties. Now, this rain has not been light sprinkling, spring rain...

No, its been a deluge of torrential rain. The type that feels as if buckets of rain are pouring all around you. Now, don't get me wrong,...I do love the green of the blossoms budding, and the spring flowers coming from the earth, but when you are so busy fumbling with your umbrella, or wading through the huge ponds in the parking lot, you don't seem to notice the beauty around you. Of course, I complain very verbally about it and my young son, Aydan, chastises me and says, "But, Mom, Heavenly Father made the rain so the plants can grow and the flowers can grow and the earth needs it. You can't get mad about that!"
Cheeky child... It's so easy to say when you are pint sized and EVERY puddle that you splash in becomes an adventure...

Then there are the leaking possiblities that happen in one's residence....

Aydan's room has such a ceiling. It only leaks if there are more than three days of rain. Of course, the landlord has sworn every time that it is fixed, but after returning home last week......very late, (we had our benefit for The Cannon Theatre Project----great fun!) we found Aydan's bed soaking wet, and brand new leaks and drips that weren't there before!

.....So we pull out every large bowl that we own (and we own alot, as we have every variety of "popcorn bowl" imaginable) and try to maneuver them strategically under the various drips. Ahhh, the sound of rain.......hitting each various bowl in a symphony of sound.

Now, the other dilemma that I face is the shortage of proper footwear or "wellies" as the Brits like to call them. Everyone knows that a diva must have her footwear match her outfit at all costs, and I only have two pairs of "wellies".
Black and hot pink. Therefore, I have to come up with outfits that have at least a splash of one of these colors. (notice the play on words...)

Its difficult to go back to wearing black again, as I have devotedly worn it for the entire last 9 months, so that leaves me with hot pink. So here I go, for the last ten days, (with only one day of sun, barely peeking through) going where no man or woman has gone before.....wearing my pink "wellies" every day. To make matters worse, I only have two rain coats...you guessed it, black and hot pink.... So, when I arrived at a flea market last week, after my husband and kids had already gone in, and began to pay for my admission, the lady at the counter said, "No, you don't have to pay...your husband already paid for you....he told us to look for 'the lady in pink'."

Do you think that perhaps Stacy and Clinton would have suggested the black raincoat with the pink boots and not gone all out doing pink on pink?

Well, I can tell you that come fall when the rain boots are on sale, I am going to be purchasing at least two new pairs! I'm thinking maybe of something with a bold print or a plaid.....maybe in a purple or red?

The "lady in red" sounds so much more dashing and chic....

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Zip Codes Don't Lie!

Boston, a beautiful overview...
The Charles River and the Mass. Ave. bridge...
Beacon Hill street...
Recently, as I was getting on to my MSN internet, (in my very FEW minutes that I have for such things nowadays, and only if I have to pay a bill) I noticed a headline for the new consensus about most expensive places to live, according to one's zip code. Naturally, since I am always bombarded with people telling me that Boston is the MOST expensive city to live in, in the United States, I was curious. So I clicked on to find the top ten...

AHA! Again I say: AHA! There it was in virtual black and white. Number one was Sagaponack, NY, (huh?) number two was in San Diego, CA, number three was in Newport Beach, CA, and of the following seven, all were in CA, except one more in NY and one in Miami, Florida. We were not even in the top ten!

So, I expanded my search to see if maybe we were in the top 25.

AHA!! AHA!! Once again, there was NO sign of any Boston area zip code. There was more NY, CA, and even NJ zips,...a place in Nevada was even number 20,...but not even close to Boston.

Now I got really serious...
I NEEDED to know with every fiber of my being just where Boston stood.

My heart started racing, as I went from page to page.... There was more CA, more NY, more NJ, more NV, more FL, some CT, some DC areas, some WA, some AZ, some PA, and the list kept going... Finally,....on page number 14...
THERE WE WERE!! NUMBER 365! A zip code in the Boston area fell into the top 365 most expensive places to live...

I took a big "sigh", looked for a few more pages, and only saw one more Boston area on there...and then smiled.

Zip codes don't lie, folks.... The facts are in...

NOW, I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ONE MORE PERSON TELLING ME THAT BOSTON IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE PLACE TO LIVE IN THE COUNTRY!!!

There....I've said it. I got it off of my chest. Now I can truly enjoy Boston without so much guilt...

(Ok, ok, so Utah wasn't even in the top 500...but do you have the ocean, and the Charles River? I rest my case...)

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Ohhh, to Sell, To Sell A House

New Hampshire house....before..... .......and after......
I have had no time to devote to my usual life, lately.

It's frustating, as I have no time to catch up on my Tivo, read any books, hang up my clothes, or even do any extensive e-mailing.....and I definitely don't have time to write on my blogs.

Why is my time not my own?

Well, we are trying to sell our house in NH, that's why...

Don't you hate it? I have watched every "how to sell your house" show on HGTV that they have, and I know all of the tricks, but I'm sure that it is sooooo much easier when you can have a team of professionals to help you. Not to mention the fact that we are on a VERY limited budget! We live, basically, hand to mouth as it is.

So, here we go again...driving up to NH....then plastering, mudding, plumbing, wiring, priming, and painting our way to the big sell. Of course, we have had to enlist the aid of some of our church friends, (or should we say, our angels of mercy...) the ones that we go to church with down here in Acton, though, not the ones up there in Bedford. We were never the favorite "service project" when we lived there, let alone being one now. (Even though, you would think that they would want us to sell the house, so we don't move back in...)

We really need to sell this house, as we want to buy a mill building in North Western Mass., for my theater, and our art gallery, and our penthouse apartment, and a small town. Wait a minute, did I say a SMALL TOWN? Yes, its true, I will be officially a small town girl....an hour and fifteen minutes from Boston..... Ohhhh, wait a minute,.....I'm hyperventilating as I write....I need to go get me a paper bag to breath into!................

Alright, I'm back. I can handle this,......after all, I handled living in Claremont, California, and that usually took two hours to get to LA.

That said, if anyone is in the market for a "lovingly restored" historic house, built in the early 19th century, with 5 bedrooms, 3 full baths, a study, formal dining room, formal living room, family room and a future kitchen, (It isn't finished yet, but we are giving the person buying this house the opportunity to pick out their own kitchen and Bret will put it in...) we have it all for you! All on an acre and a half with a barn, a huge garage, and an attached carriage house!
It's got the white picket fence and everything! Come live in one of the only states that has no state tax or tax on things that you buy! Get all the seasons that anyone could want, and a great school district to boot!

Ok, ok, so I am getting carried away now.

But, seriously, it would be for a GREAT cause!

Thursday, March 23, 2006

I Carry Your Heart With Me


i carry your heart with me (i carry it in my heart)
i am never without it (anywhere i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling)
i fear no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)
i want no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

e.e. cummings

Yesterday was my wedding anniversary to my wonderful hubby, Bret. It was our ninth year of marriage and ten years that I have known him. I will not say that it has been ten years of bliss, but definitely ten years of laughter, tears, tantrums, trauma's, stress, love, respect, quiet moments, crazy moments, and lots of moving! Some people think that I "wear the pants" in this relationship, because Bret is so quiet and reserved, and I'm,....well....we all know that I am a loose "cannon". (couldn't help the play on words)

But the truth of the matter is that we are an equal team.
We make decisions together, even though one may be stronger on one decision than the other, and each of us have respect for each other's strengths and weaknesses to know when to let the other shine.

Bret is my love, my calm in the middle of a stormy life, my cornerstone that I cling to when my foundation is threatened, my best friend that enjoys gossiping once in a while, my business and "artistic vision" partner, my cheerleader when I'm down, my other half....

The poem above is one of my favorites, and it describes how I feel about him...perfectly....

Here's to another ten.....and on to infinity....

Saturday, March 11, 2006

Time For Creature Sightings




I don't know if you have noticed that it is that time of the year again. The tulips are starting to appear, struggling to come up through the hard earth. The birds are returning from their southern migration and beginning their nesting, awaiting the warmth of spring. Everywhere you look, you see new creatures emerging from their cocoons, or their burrows.

It is at this time that an interesting phenomenon takes place among the human of the species. As they shed their parkas and their heavy boots and wooley hats, a new creature emerges. This creature is decked out in their latest caps, shirt and short sets, wind-breakers, and paraphenalia of their favorite sports teams.

Everywhere you look, you see these creatures. Big ones, small ones, fat ones, tall ones. It is a veritable feast for the human eye, sporting colors and logos from every baseball, football, hockey, and basketball team imaginable. They are, literally, covered from head to toe in these logos, proudly strutting and preening for all to see which sports team they are supporting....or giving their life's earnings to.

I marvel at their creative ability to mix and match their "sports wear", sometimes wearing the logo's on every piece of clothing that they wear and one has to wonder if their underwear is also sporting a logo. Fashion sense has long gone out the window and I can imagine their ancestors rolling in their graves as they witness this mismatched, unattractive display of loud colors, and yes, numbers, that their progeny wears.

I felt that it was my duty to interview one such creature. The following is the interview as it happened. In order to protect her family, I have chosen to name the interviewee "Madge". (I will be "the fashionista" for the interview---well, that is pretty self-explanatory)

The Fashionista: "Hey Madge, great to see you around again! I haven't seen you in all winter!"

Madge: (laughing) "Yes, well,.....you might say I've been busy, preparing for the warm weather."

The Fashionista: "What were you doing? Storing nuts?"

Madge: "No, silly, I've been gearing up for the new sports season! I've got baseball right around the corner and I've been shopping for my new entire wardrobe of Red Sox t-shirts, socks and caps to wear... Don't they look great?"

The Fashionista: ....."Right........hmmmm....well,.....that large number across your chest in bright blue and white certainly stands out against that RED
t-shirt, and the accessories that you chose----that baseball cap, and those socks.... with small "red socks"......all over them, is certainly fetching...."

Madge: (loudly) "GOOOO RED SOX!! I can't wait for the first game!"

The Fashionista: (covering my ears) "Wow, I just noticed that you also have a Red Sox watch with blinking 'go red sox' lights on it, and WHERE ever did you find those earrings to match---are they battery operated or something?"

Madge: "Yeah, aren't they great? I got them at the same store in the mall that I bought my Red Sox comforter and throw pillows!!!! You should come and see how I've decorated!"

The Fashionista: ....."Uhhhh.......................
(recovering) I'd REALLY love to, but I've got to stay at home tonight and catch up on my 'What Not to Wear'.... Great seeing you though! Gotta run!"


.................No, even I didn't see the "sports decorating" coming.
It blind-sided me.
I think that I am terrified of many things, but perhaps,...........being invited to a "sports enthusiast's" home is now at the top of my list.

Saturday, February 25, 2006

One Pill Makes You Sleepy and One Pill Makes You Small...And Then There is That One Pill That Doesn't Do Anything at All...


Now before you go out and call the police....thinking that I am abusing drugs....let me explain...

I have noticed that there are so many substances that we (or, rather, I) take into our bodies now that have the word "herbal" after the title, so we feel that it's ok for us to take it....

I just started taking another diet-type herbal formula, one that doesn't have any caffiene in it, so I'm not bouncing all over the room any more than I usually do, which to some, is quite disconcerting as it is.... This one has "herbs" to curb hunger, and "herbs" to speed up one's metabolism (since mine has come to an earth shattering, screeching HALT!) It also has several vitamins and essential minerals that are good for the body, and was recommended and tried by a web site that tests all these type of products for consumers....

So far, so good...

But....it got me to thinking...which is always dangerous for me, I assume. (refer to previous blogs) Are all these so-called "herbal" supplements ok for our bodies and have we gone overboard in trusting these remedies? I had to see a doctor about a month ago----remember, the headaches.....and of course, they asked me what prescription medications that I was taking.... Well, there was only one...imitrex for my migraines....once every three months or so...but I wonder if I should have mentioned that I take 1000 mg. of valerian, an "herb" for sleeping, every night, or I can't sleep a wink... Or that I shoot straight zinc into my nose at the first sign of a sore throat/cold... (Zicam---what did I do without you before?) ....And what about all the other "herbs" that I have tried for various health problems? Do they ever list the other "herbs" on the bottles that might be fatal if mixed with the herb that I'm taking?

Something to think about....

As for me and my weight pill....I feel quite optimistic that I will lose the extra 15 pounds....and DON'T give me that "You should eat right and exercise everyday" crap....I DO....I think that I explained my metabolism earlier....and I don't want to hear "Well, you must be at the right weight that your body wants you to be!"

......It's just that I don't have the money for a whole new "larger" wardrobe...
You see.....I'm spending it on important "herbs".....

Friday, February 10, 2006

To Read Or Not To Read...


A few weeks ago, I went on a field trip to an Armory with my son's kindergarten class. There was armor from the 3rd century up to the 16th century. Now, this Armory was started by a man that had devoted his life to collecting antique and unique weapons and armor. Fascinating! It made me feel like I had stepped back in time...viewing armor that looked more like art pieces than used for fighting, and seeing armor from different countries, also...

So, of course, I immediately thought...."wow, I need to read about this era..."

Now,......you have to understand... I go through periods of "research" where I get into this "exploratory" mode. My children can tell you that I have had some very strange ones....reading about every mass murderer, and trying to find information on "castrati's" being several of them...

But,...as I got onto www.half.com, one of my favorite sites to find used books, I felt that thrill and rush of the search...trying to find books that I can read up on the era or person or event that I don't yet know that much about. I realized at that moment how much I LOVE books and how they have changed my life...

It sounds crazy, I know, but I spent my early childhood buried deep in books...
My mom threatened to take them away for punishment for not doing my chores....and I don't remember very much of the actual junior high and high school days, as I wandered in a daze, still totally absorbed in the book that I was reading at the time...

During my first marriage, I found that I looked forward to when my husband would travel, so I could stay up and read almost all night. People ask me what my favorite authors or types of books are, and I have to say that it depends on my interest and my mood. I'll read about anything, and if it interests me, I will enjoy it immensely! It's so wonderful that we have so many to choose from and that someone has done the research for us to learn about history, events, the mind of others, people's lives, other parts of the world, science and even the arts.

As for SOME of my favorites:
(and believe me, it was very hard to decide, as I have so many favorites...)

*"Cold Mountain" by Charles Frazier
-----Great writing...I still re-read the paragraph where Inman lies dying on the cold ground....the writing is so beautiful...
*"The English Patient" by Michael Ondaatje
------love this book...so mysterious, tragic, but a fantastic story...
*"Tale of Two Cities" by Charles Dickens
----still my favorite of his books...
*Good Night, Mr. Tom" by Michelle Magorian
-----actually a teen book, but so worthwhile...gives insight to the British "rail" children during WWII...
*"A Passage to India" by E.M. Forster
-----this story is so fascinating, bridging the gaps between class and country...
*"Alias Grace" by Margeret Atwood
----a mystery, but most of all, this book delves into human nature, and the history of psychcology...amazing...
*"The Grapes of Wrath" by John Steinbeck
----awesome story about depression life in normal middle America....
*"The Crucible" by Arthur Miller
----such a great story about human paranoia, and how far some would go to protect themselves...
*" Drowning Ruth" by Cristina Schwartz
----delves into the psychcological mind of women...also, a mysterious death...
*"To Kill A Mockingbird" by Harper Lee
-----one of my early favorites and still such a great story!...
*"Of Mice and Men" by John Steinbeck
-----still one of my all time favorites....so tragic...
*"The Outsiders" by S.E. Hinton
-----the story touched me so deeply when I was a pre-teen and still has a strong message today...
*"Nectar From a Stone" by Jane Guill
----a Welsh story about a young woman's exodus after murdering her husband in self defense----in the 14th century...
*"An Indecent Obsession" by Colleen McCollough
-----a love story, but also tragic...
*"The Weight of Water" by Anita Shreve
----she has written many great books, but this is my all time favorite, love the parallels between the past and the present....brilliant!
*"The Music of the Spheres" by Elizabeth Redfern
----a marvelous book about astrology and music,....so good....
*"Rose" by Martin Cruz Smith
----mining in the 1800's...great!...
*"Enemy Women" Paulette Giles
----neat story from a womans point of view of the Civil War as it was ending....
*"Life and Death in Shanghai" by Nien Cheng
----I've read many biographies and autobiographies, but this was supreme!...
*"Testimony of an Irish Slave Girl" by Kate McCafferty
----such an interesting page in history...never knew that the Irish were sent to Barbados in the 1600's to be slaves....
*"Fingersmith" by Sarah Waters
--- riveting look at the classes and pickpockets in London, with a mystery to boot...
*"Five Mile House" by Karen Novak
-----a haunted house, and several twists and turns...scary....
*"Stones From the River" by Ursula Hegi
----WWII from the vantage point of the Germans....not the Nazi's...
*Resistence" by Anita Shreve
----another great book by this author...WWII Germany again...
*"Sweet Thames" by Matthew Kneale
----about the history of cleaning up the Thames, and how it coincided with a major cholera epidemic in England...
*Year of Wonders" by Geraldine Brooks
----a riveting book that takes place during the black plague...
*"How to Murder a Man" by Matthew Kneale
-----explores the history of even further Irish intimidations, during the 1800's as they fear the "Ribbonmen"....

Ok, ok....so I have gone on further than I should have...

I have so many more, and get so excited when I find a new one....

But, for now, this will have to do.... As for what I found to read after I looked for medieval books....I'm reading "The Illuminator" by Brenda Rickman Vantrease...a novel about the Oxford cleric John Wycliffe, who first translated the bible into a language for the common man in the 14th century....

What is an illuminator?....you may ask....
Well....its a man who uses art to....hmmmm....maybe you should go found out for yourself....

Thursday, January 19, 2006

Diva Forever




My husband gave me a really great book for a late Christmas present. It is titled "Lost Diva's" and is about the women that were opera singers before the age of television and film. They were huge stars on the stage before they disappeared from the public eye, as they were replaced by film stars. It came with a CD of original recordings and is a beautiful, large black and white photo/coffee table book. I really love it........because I really like opera, and am fascinated with history and the clothes, and lifestyle, etc. of women before 1970.

But.......the other reason I liked the book was because of the title...."Lost Diva's".

You see.....I too, am a lost diva.....

....and in this day and age of women never dressing up, never wearing makeup, having the foulest mouths I've ever heard, spending so much time on their families, or their jobs, and not on themselves............well,....I consider it a lost art....

Now, on the web site www.divasthesite.com it states that the diva criteria is:
*Extraordinary glamour
*Mystery
*A liberal sprinkling of tragedy
*And most of all....endurance throughout the years...

Well...I guess I qualify....but there are several other ways to know....

"How do I know if I am a diva?" you may ask....
"How will I know when I see one" you may inquire....
"How will I know if my girlfriend/wife is one?" you may wonder.....

Ask, inquire, or wonder no longer, reader, as I can answer these questions with the following Diva requirements.

YOU KNOW YOU ARE A DIVA, IF:

*You find yourself taking more than 45 minutes to get ready.

*You change your outfit, at LEAST 3 times a morning, before you get the right combination to go with your mood.

*You are anticipating the next season in fashion, and already have started collecting the pictures from fashion magazines for your bulletin board "outfit ideas".

*You have at LEAST five pair of black shoes. (not counting boots...)

*You would NEVER swear in public, and try to always maintain your cool in a sticky situation.

*If you go skiing and wipe out on the ski slope, you are glad that your outfit matches and looks good when the ski guys come to get you on that little emergency sled.

*You can stay up until 3:00 in the morning and still look good, whether you are performing, out dancing, or just driving your friends home. (since a diva never drinks and makes a fool of herself, so she is always the designated driver)

*You crave the limelight, whether it be singing in front of an audience, acting in a play, being in charge of a project, leading a PTO meeting, or just speaking out in public whenever possible.

*You take the time to finish your makeup, in the car, even though you are late for your child's conference at school.

*You don't like planning meetings or making appointments early in the morning, as you know that you don't look as good early in the day, and you will have to rush with the aforementioned requirements for the diva...i.e. clothing choice, and having full makeup on.

*You CAN NOT ever wear anything that doesn't match----even when dressing down, at home,....your socks must match, etc.

*Your child has to remind you that you haven't gotten his/her breakfast, as you were trying to decide what to wear.

*You love getting your picture taken, as you are very photogenic and usually look better in photographs, than in real life.

*You really enjoy making the family all match on Sundays when you all go to church together, and love it when someone notices.

*You secretly wish that there was paparazzi outside your house, as you always look "put together" when going shopping, or to the grocery store.

*You have at LEAST two mirrors in your bedroom, one being a mandatory full length mirror.

*You only buy "thin" mirrors to place in your home and abhor "fat" mirrors----they are the devil.

*You always make sure that you slip out and re-apply your lipstick if someone brings out a camera.

*If you ever go outside your home with no makeup on, you wear big dark glasses, as you feel naked without "your face" on.

*You are NEVER afraid of over acessorizing, as you love to do it and remember to be discreet.

*You put an outfit together and look good, even if you aren't going anywhere during the day, and only cleaning your house...you never know when someone might stop by...

*Your hair is always stylish, and you are upset if you see any pictures of yourself over the years where your hair style hasn't changed.....you MUST do something a bit different at least each year...

*You are the vainest person that you know...

There you go....
The mystery is over....
Lost divas, unite....

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Nice Guys Finish Last


I really wanted to review holiday movies and the fact that I am the only person that didn't especially like the King Kong movie.... I found it way too stressful and the best part of it was the ape.... I decided that I want him to be my friend....

But then, certain events in my life have made me turn from my favorite way of escaping...movies...and think about some other, deep mysteries of life....

....like why is it that nice guys/girls always finish last?

I have gone through my life, being a bit of a rebel, but really actually being a nice person. I don't do much road rage. (unless I'm really late) I tend to be short sometimes with retail workers, but only because they tend to be more inept than when I was one, and actually really DID know how to count back money!
I think that I am a fair mother, and when I asked my kids to do something, always added a "please" after it, so they didn't feel as if I was ordering them about... (This I decided to do, when in high school I saw a woman totally berate and tell her child what to do...loudly...in public....much like a dog...) I try not to gossip about people, and even though I come across as an aggressive person, who doesn't care what anyone thinks of me, I really just want people to like me and I want to be accepted for who I am..

So, why is it, that I feel that no matter what I do, I can't ever get ahead?

You know.....in that financially, "making my dreams come true" sort of way...

I can't really relate the specific events that happened that caused me to
re-evaluate this situation, as those involved would certainly retaliate....but lets just say that I feel that certain people have taken a knife to my chest, cut my heart out, then cooked it for dinner and eaten it, right before me....

I keep thinking back on choices that I have made to get to where I am now.....

Perhaps I should have joined that band after high school, and not gone to college...

Perhaps I should have never let my dad talk me into going to BYU that year...

Perhaps I should have gone to Milan to model when I was offered and left my two small children...

Perhaps I should have tried out for those movies that required me to use language that I didn't think was right...

Perhaps I shouldn't have gone skiing that New Years day...

Perhaps I should have not let someone move me all over the country every two years...

Perhaps I shouldn't have had Norwegian "nannies" for my kids while they were small, so I could model and do commercials...

Perhaps I should have been the kind of person that doesn't care about fashion, makeup, hair, and how I look...

Perhaps I should have stayed in California, and never had "seasons" again...

Perhaps I should have been more strict with my children and not tried to be their "friend"...

Perhaps I should stop trying to make it as a singer---even though I have tried for over 25 years...

Perhaps I should go back to college, then I could be hired as a drama teacher, even though I have enough experience to do it, without....

Perhaps I should have been a nurse, like my father wanted me to, or gone to business school, or gotten my real estate license and sold expensive properties, or just married a filthy rich man..........

........Now, wait a minute.....THAT is the only decision that I don't question....I know that my hubby is the only one for me....of course....we are MEANT for each other.........you may ask "Why"?

Because.......he's a nice guy......

Friday, December 30, 2005

Ring Out the Old, Ring In the New...


AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Yes, its that time of year again...

Time to pull out the old, review, and bring on the new...

You know what I'm talking about...

New Year's resolutions...

I, technically, have never been a big "New Years" person... I don't drink, and I don't really get into the celebrating thing that much and would rather be doing a gig... (so I am busy and I can run down off stage right after midnight and give my hubby a smooch, then go back up for another hour of singing...)

But, this year, I got canceled out of my gig, (apparently it doesn't look good to have ONE back-up singer on New Years...you need two and the money wasn't there for two...) so I am hanging with the family and doing the snacks, watch movies, dance around, and all hug and smooch at the specified time...

Well and good, but we all know that its that time of the year when we
re-evaluate ourselves and make new resolutions....which we will break after several months or maybe even several days.....

Soooo, here goes mine......

1. Apparently we are supposed to smooch more often, (I got this off the internet of the top resolutions that would be good for us for this year....hmmmm)
so I will put this at the top of my list, as I like doing that,.....AND hugging, alot!

2. I will start writing "thank you" notes this year... (this is a leftover from last year, where I didn't even do one......sigh....)....even if it is just written as an
e-mail...

3. I will lose 15 lbs. (last year it was only 10....go figure....)

4. I will exercise at LEAST four times a week and join a gym to do the weight machines... (this one isn't too bad, as I actually love to exercise....refer to earlier blog)...or maybe get my own machine---I would LOVE one of those!

5. I will try to start my theater this year....it looks like I finally have a building for it...if we can get our house sold, and get some grant money, and....( I really need a partner for this, so if you want a crack at it, and have a real good head for marketing, and financing, and grants, etc.----let me know----I can do all the creative stuff....and we can probably get you a place to live in the building, rent free...!)

6. I will read my scriptures everyday.... (I have done terribly on this one, and really NEED to get back on track...)

7. I will try to play with Aydan more often....er....really get down on the floor and PLAY stuff with him....er....maybe do some games with him.....er.....maybe just read with him..... (Poor Aydan....I am soooooo burned out with raising kids....)

8. I will only watch the tube two nights a week......(I'll just Tivo the other days and watch them all on those two days...I just can't get enough of BBC America, Project Runway, America's Top Model, and HGTV!)

9. I will be better at being on time......(yeah, right......)

10. I will appreciate my family and tell them more often that I love them, adore them, and will overlook the eccentricities that drive me crazy....
(at least for a week....)

There......

I feel much better now....

I know that I have a lot more that need to be dealt with, but I'm not going to push it....

I will try to do these until the end of January, at least.................er...........until January 15th...........er................at least for the first week of January.....
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